In the early 2000s, a slim, sass-mouthed book landed on nightstands like a grenade. Sherry Argov’s Why Men Love Bitches didn’t apologize for its title. It promised a transformation: from the “doormat” who over-apologizes and over-available to the “dreamgirl” who knows her worth.
One of the most important lessons in the book is the necessity of maintaining your own identity. When you have your own hobbies, friends, and career, you aren't dependent on a man for your happiness. This lack of desperation is incredibly attractive. A man wants to feel like he's earned a place in your life, not like he's your only source of fulfillment. 2. The Power of "No" In the early 2000s, a slim, sass-mouthed book
★★★★☆ (4/5) It loses a star for repetitiveness and occasional over-simplification of male psychology, but gains four stars for its raw ability to empower the reader to stop settling. One of the most important lessons in the
“A strong woman doesn’t chase. She attracts. And when she stops chasing, she finds that everything she wanted starts chasing her.” A man wants to feel like he's earned